THE DIVORCED DAD SURVIVAL GUIDE
What Christian Fathers Are Really Struggling With After Divorce —
And Why “Just Being Strong” Isn’t Working
(This is not a workbook. This is not a program. This is clarity.)
THIS EBOOK IS FOR THE MAN WHO IS FUNCTIONING — BUT NOT FINE
You’re showing up. You’re providing. You’re being present.
But internally:
Your emotions feel unpredictable or shut down
You replay conversations constantly
Your faith feels distant or confusing
You feel like you lost yourself, not just your marriage
You’re afraid of becoming a version of yourself your kids don’t need
If that resonates, this guide was written for you.
WHAT THIS EBOOK WILL DO FOR YOU
This ebook will not fix your life.
What it will do is give you:
Language for what you’re experiencing
Clarity about why this feels so destabilizing
Relief from thinking “something is wrong with me”
A framework for what healing actually requires
A clear understanding of what comes next
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN INSIDE
✔ Why divorce hits men differently than women
✔ Why your emotions feel unpredictable or numb
✔ Why faith can feel distant even when you still believe
✔ Why isolation feels safer — and why it backfires
✔ The hidden stages men actually move through after divorce
✔ Why most men drift instead of rebuild
✔ What real rebuilding requires (and what it doesn’t)
This is orientation, not execution.
A WORD FROM THE AUTHOR
I didn’t write this guide as an expert standing above you.
I wrote it as a man who lost his footing.
After years of loss — including six miscarriages and the death of our son late in pregnancy — my marriage unraveled. Alcohol re-entered my home in ways I recognized from my childhood, watching my own mother struggle with alcoholism before it eventually took her life.
I didn’t just lose a marriage. I lost my internal stability.
What helped first wasn’t a program.
It was understanding what was actually happening to me.
This ebook gives you that understanding.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER (IMPORTANT)
At the end of the ebook, you’ll be invited to continue — not pressured.
If you want:
Structure
Daily guidance
A real rebuild
That’s where the Rebuilt Program & Field Manual Workbook comes in.
But this comes first.
FINAL WORD
You are not weak. You are not broken. You are not failing your kids.
You are navigating a season that demands clarity before action.
This guide gives you that clarity.
